Boots + Heels + Red Wine

What makes a Good Dominant

Takeaway: It’s important to make sure that you are able to find a good Dominant. A Dominant should take care of you, just like you, as the submissive, take care of them. There are a number of questions that people new to the BDSM lifestyle, both Dominant and submissive, would like to know about the scene. […]

Japan’s Naughty Knotty BDSM

“It turns out the same is true in the realm of Japan’s fetish subculture. Half-baked knowledge of BDSM is also the cause of great injury—especially with ropes.” Yes you can get hurt with ropes, being tied up, spanked, etc. etc. Often there is a fine line that a sensitive practitioner will notice. Obviously, Do NO […]

Erotic Trance – Sub Space

This is an interesting article; the idea of entering into or out off a place where there is much clutter in the mind or body. The idea of letting go completely into the moment to someone else is an exciting idea. I love  deeply intoxicating excitement – the buzz in the air. I believe deeply […]

The Health Benefits of BDSM

BDSM is Not a New Sexual Practice Mainstream culture often represents BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, and sadomasochism) as reckless, dangerous, and unhealthy. Take Fifty Shades of Grey for instance, Christian Grey’s reasons for enjoying kink stem from his childhood abuse. Television crime dramas often portray fetishists as seedy, unethical lawbreakers. It isn’t just the […]

Periodic Table of Kink

A new way to discover your KINK, use it to play a game and discover your erotic edges. Make sure you know your boundaries before you please and establish safe words and make sure you have a way to cut someone out of any robes or ties. Safety cutters or scissors are a must.