BDSM Sensual Domination

BDSM is an erotic preference and a form of sexual expression involving the consensual use of restraint, intense sensory stimulation, and fantasy power role-play. The compound acronym BDSM is derived from the terms bondage and discipline (B&D or B/D), dominance and submission (D&S or D/s), and sadism and masochism (S&M or S/M). BDSM includes a wide spectrum of activities, forms of interpersonal relationships, and distinct subcultures.

Now I will explain a little bit about “Sensual Domination”, let me emphasize that every session is different because every person is different. There are a surprising number of persons who are not into pain. This is especially true of novices. That is fine with me, and what these persons wanted was sensual domination.

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The activities in this area include role play, light bondage, cross dressing, tease and denial play, etc. The sensual domination guys usually ask about nudity. Every Domme has a different policy. Some does all of her sessions in the nude depending on the cases. Sensual domination can also involve the light trailing of ones hair, nails or breath on the skin, feathers, low sultry talk, hot towels, vibration and other “sensations” works well for this sort of scene.

Sensual domination can involve bondage with scarves as opposed to handcuffs, feathers, skin, whispering, blindfolds, sensation play, foot and shoe worship are also in this category. I want to read something to you from Contessa deiFiori of London: “When I talk about sensual domination, I refer to a session which will overload the sub’s senses without it being harsh or rude. I use a soft, calm voice – sometimes it is a mere whisper. . . . The play is in the mind and the body is the means to excite a sub’s brain to me, that is what I call sensual domination.”

Here is a list of some of my favorite things. Of course, I would get hopelessly bored if I only did my favorite things, so if your interest is not listed here, please inquire.

Tease & Denial
Cock & Ball Torture
Electrical Play
Dark Tantra
Orgasm control games
Domestic discipline
Bondage
Sensual torment / sensation play
Impact play
Hypnotic induction
Fantasy role play

I always play with a safe word or safe signal, and I will only engage in activities that are consensual and safe. I do not do ball kicking, brown or roman showers, or physical breath play (psychological breath control is ok). I’d love to tease and embarrass you, but I do not enjoy hardcore degradation.

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