Ultimate surrender

October 28, 2015

After readying about this amazing woman, I am inspired to the art form of BDSM and surrender. I think that if we can do it well, it is worth while and very fun.

How good are you at SURRENDERING?

This a partial of the article with the link below.

The life of Catherine Robbe-Grillet makes Fifty Shades of Grey look like a Disney movie. In 1951, she became the mistress of the writer—and accomplished sadist—Alain Robbe-Grillet, whom she later married. Today, an 83-year-old widow, she is France’s most famous dominatrix. Visiting the 17th-century château where Robbe-Grillet conducts some of her rituals, Toni Bentley delves into the world of a modern-day Marquise de Sade, her relationship with the much younger Beverly Charpentier, and her journey from submission to dominance.

http://www.vanityfair.com/unchanged/2014/02/catherine-robbe-grillet-french-dominatrix

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